Tenderly run your hand along the waistband of his underwear, touch his penis through the fabric very gently, almost imperceptibly. Once opened, or unbuttoned, gently slide his trousers down over his hips and down to his thighs, like there’s an unexploded bomb within – which there kind of is if you think about it. Unzip slowly – not only to create tension but also to avoid an emergency dash to the hospital – and sensuously. A good BJ begins even before the zip is open. Yes, penises are extremely exciting and you may well not be able to wait to get your hands on it, but the build-up us just as important. Just take a few hints from them rather then replicating every single move – you may well scare the bejesus out of your partner. These guys are professionals whose gag reflex only kicks in when they have food poisoning. But remember: nobody is expecting a perfect porno reenactment. While it may be a little rougher than you would experience in everyday life – and porn actors seem to be strangers to lockjaw or tired tongues – if there’s something in there that gets you excited, chances are he’ll be into it too. What more excuse do you need? Watching pornography can be a great way to bone up on technique. A bad BJ technique is remembered for a long time but, if you follow this guide, you’re well on the way to being a fond memory and not a horror story.
